Since ‘relajarse’ is reflexive in Spanish many Spaniards when they speak English translate it by making it reflexive in English. This is wrong. For example, if I want to say ‘me relajo’ you do not want to say ‘I relax myself’ or ‘I relax me’. Rather, you would just say ‘I relax’. This is because the verb ‘to relax’ is not reflexive in English. Equally ‘se relaja’ would be ‘she relaxes’ and not ‘she relaxes herself’.